One of the effective methods in enjoining good and forbidding wrong is âHaving good temperâ
A short story 1:
A Christian insulted imam Baqir ( pbuh) as: â you are calledâBagharâ1 â
But the majesty imam replied: âNo, Iâm called Baqirâ
The Christian continued: âYou are a cookâs sonâ
The imam replied, âIt was her jobâ
He went on, âYou are the black Utopian womanâs son who had a sharp tongue!
The imam stated, âIf you tell the truth, God bless my mother. But if you tell a lie, God forgive you!
It was then, the Christian converted to IslamâŠ
Bihar al- Anwar. Vol. 46, P. 289
A short story 2:
A clean- shaven came to Hajj Shaykh Abul Kareem Haêeri.
Sheikh Haêeri kissed the shaving trace on his face and said,
âPlease donât shave where I kissedâ
And the man accepted.
God stated the prophet (pbuh&h):
âIf you were rude and grumpy, the people would disperse around you.â
Surah, Al Imran. Verse, 159
Hojjat al-Islam Gharaatiâs memoirs. Vol.2, P. 115.